I tried. Honestly!
I went to the Horse Committee meeting tonight for our local 4H. I went for moral support for my SIL. A lot of issues came up at this past summer's fair and I've gone to the last two meetings for support.
Well, somehow, even though I declined the nomination, I became secretary. I was quite shocked at the results, as I truly thought my no meant no. Sigh.....it's only one meeting every other month and only for a year, right?